Two weeks ago the topic in Master Gardeners was temperate fruit trees. As we reviewed all of the things that can negatively affect fruit set, I had this overwhelming thought:
How does anything grow at all when there are so many things that can go wrong?
Really, a gardener could get freaked out looking into all of the variables that allow a healthy plant to grow. Consider the odds against fruiting—abscission of bud and flowers, weather, competition, disease, insect pests, shade, improper pruning…..
But then this is also true: you can buy a tomato plant, put it in soil, water it regularly and you will probably get a tomato. And you will most likely be blind to all of the things that conspired together to make things go right.
I find that a lot of gardening—life itself?—is about holding these two things in tension.
1) It’s complicated. Lots of things can go wrong, and lots of things can go right. As we meet hard stuff with courage and persistence and faith, we ought to meet the good stuff with some deep gratitude. I will truly never look at fruits and vegetables the same way again because everything I have learned has taught me that they are nothing short of miracles.
2) It’s simple. I think it’s important to slow down and demystify things so that we don’t get overwhelmed and paralyzed by them—things like gardening and scratch cooking and raising children and car maintenance. We ought not to overcomplicate things. We try, learn, experiment, fail, succeed, and ultimately, make progress. At the end of the day, we’ll probably have grown something good.
Exhibit A: a wisteria vine growing up our pergola:
And here’s the wisteria vine we planted six feet away, same soil, same orientation, same watering and care.
Yep, nothing there. It died, and I have no idea why. See? Complicated.
But then there’s this: artichokes.
Gardening is a lot like raising two beautiful daughters.You got to be really LUCKY. Boy did I hit the Jackpot.dad
Thanks for sharing, Tricia! Great thoughts…
Well said Tricia!
Here’s to a passing grade on Tuesday!
May it be so! Can you believe the course is at an end? I have an upcoming post on this—-have you heard the quote?—“The greater the circle of knowledge, the longer the perimeter of ignorance.” I have learned SO much, and I’m that much more aware of how much I don’t know. So glad it’s an ongoing learning community….See you tomorrow!